Dating in the dark: A qualitative examination of dating experiences in Dark Tetrad personalities

Dark Tetrad (D4) traits have been shown to influence both perpetration and victimisation of dating related anti-social behaviours. To inform prevention and intervention measures against these behaviours, it is important to understand how persons with elevated D4 traits search for partners and what aspects of dating they appraise as positive versus negative. This study aims to qualitatively explore the role of personality in dating experiences; specifically, preference for dating platform and perceived dating outcomes in those with elevated D4 traits. In total, 480 adults from Australia, (288 women, 186 men, and 6 non-binary) aged 18- 70 years (M = 29.51, SD = 12.82), took part in an online qualitative and quantitative survey. Participants with elevated traits of psy-chopathy, narcissism and sadism showed a greater preference for meeting people offline. Applying template analysis, we generated three themes for positive experiences: finding a new partner, connecting with others, and material and personal benefits. For negative experiences, we identified four themes: not being able to find a partner, misrepresentation, online and in-person victimisation, and difficulties with navigating close relation-ships. Whilst persons with elevated D4 traits value connecting with others, they dislike deceptive dating practices and often perceive themselves to be victimised in online and offline settings. Future studies should investigate whether dating experiences differ across individuals who score within elevated versus lower range on D4 traits.

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This study aims to explore the role of personality in dating experiences, specifically the preferences for dating platforms and perceived outcomes for individuals with elevated D4 traits. The results show that participants with psychopathy, narcissism, and sadism traits prefer meeting people offline. They value connecting with others but dislike deceptive dating practices and often perceive themselves as victims in both online and offline settings. Future research should investigate whether dating experiences differ for individuals with high versus low scores on D4 traits.