Journal
FEMINISM & PSYCHOLOGY
Volume 31, Issue 3, Pages 385-403Publisher
SAGE PUBLICATIONS LTD
DOI: 10.1177/0959353520963967
Keywords
women’ s sexuality; heterosex; orgasmic imperative; faking orgasm; feminist critical discourse analysis; Canada
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- St. Thomas University Research Grant
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Women often fake sexual pleasure in order to protect their partners' ego, but they also see this behavior as problematic in terms of deceit and dishonesty. The dilemma arises when discussing faking orgasm, as it is perceived as necessary but dishonest.
Faking orgasm has been identified as a common practice among women and feminist scholars have probed the connections between the socio-cultural meanings associated with faking and heterosex. Expanding on this line of inquiry, feigning sexual pleasure was explored in interviews with 14 women who reported having sex with men. Using a feminist critical discourse analytic approach, we attend to the dilemma that was frequently evoked in women's accounts. Participants explained that feigning sexual pleasure was done in order to protect their partners' ego. However, participants also talked about faking orgasm as being problematic in the sense that it was deceitful and dishonest. These contrasting discursive patterns created a dilemma whereby faking was situated as necessary but dishonest. As a way of negotiating this dilemma, participants made a distinction between exaggerating sexual pleasure and faking orgasm. We posit that exaggeration can be interpreted as a form of material (during the sexual encounter) and discursive (during accounting of the encounter) disruption of dominant discourses of heterosex such as the orgasmic imperative. Drawing on Annamarie Jagose's and Hannah Frith's problematizations of the prevailing tendency to position orgasm as either authentic or fake, we discuss women's negotiation of the limited constructions of real pleasure.
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