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Parenting My Transgender Child: From Loss to Acceptance

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ANNALS OF FAMILY MEDICINE
Volume 19, Issue 6, Pages 556-559

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ANNALS FAMILY MEDICINE
DOI: 10.1370/afm.2737

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transgender persons; gender identity

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The author's son Neo declared himself as a boy at the age of 11, which initially caused struggle for the author to accept. However, as time passed, the author learned how to support Neo and eventually felt acceptance and pride as she witnessed his growth and transformation. Neo's experience taught the author to challenge societal norms and understand how healthcare professionals can support families with gender-diverse children.
At age 11, my child Neo told me he was a boy and not a girl, as assigned at birth. Despite my training as a child and adolescent psychiatrist, I struggled to accept his declaration and had to learn how to best support him. He was never a typical girl, but when he decided he was transgender, my husband and I navigated the adjustment to new pronouns, a name change, the transition at school, and telling friends and family. Seeing Neo's sadness and despondency when he was not accepted sparked me to educate myself about medical options for transgender individuals and other ways to be gender affirming. Although I initially felt a sense of loss and hurt about Neo being transgender, these feelings changed to acceptance and pride as I watched Neo change and grow. Neo taught me to challenge societal dichotomies and taught me about how physicians in particular can support families with gender-creative children.

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